Llamau provide a personal advisor service as part of their Merthyr Care Leavers Scheme, beginning work with young people aged 15 ¾. They have captured the voices of these young people, and what matters to these care leavers the most.
“Help me find opportunities for meeting new people – it stops us feeling isolated.”
For example:
“Help us take part in things that make us feel happy and improve our emotional well-being.”
For example:
“Support us well.”
“Make us aware of the St David’s Day Fund, how we access it and how and why decisions are made, and what can be done if a decision is declined.”
Young people feel that the St. David’s Day Fund could be used to support them in the following ways:
“Help us realise our aspirations”
For example, many care leavers do not take a holiday and would like to have this experience.
Take time to get to know us for who we really are; speak to us like young adults
Base your knowledge of us only from reading records; talk to us like a bossy parent
Involve us in new experiences
Leave me to my own devices
Keep in touch more when I need extra help
Only doing the minimum you have to
Believe in us and fight our corner
Going through the motions of what is expected … visits, write ups, reviews and reports… with no intrinsic interest in who I am and my well-being
When talking to us keep it real, be straight forward and say things as they are
Avoid giving negative information because you don’t want to upset somebody, or make promises that cannot be kept
Understand that because of our experiences, we need second chances; we don’t always have family and friends we can call on
Criticise young people for ‘bad behaviour’ or not taking responsibility; blame us for repeat mistakes
Check out how the services is going once in a while with care leavers, involve us in service developments
Assume everything is going well because you haven’t been told otherwise