Found alive

When someone is found or comes home, there are some steps to take, particularly if the person was reported missing to the police.

When your person is found

There is often a huge sense of relief, along with many other emotions, when someone is found. It might not be the easiest of times, with lots of unanswered questions and worry that things might not be ok. You might find it hard to trust the person straight away. There are some practical things to be done at this stage, as well as ways to look after yourself and the person.

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Steps you can take

There are some people you probably need to tell and you to make sure anyone who was helping search knows to stop. Here are some things to think about

Tell the police

If the person was reported missing, and they then home or make contact, make you speak to the police as soon as you can to let them know.

Remove publicity

It’s important that any publicity for the person is taken down. Make sure this has been done by the police and by us, and follow our guidance if you spot publicity that was done through other means.

Take things slowly

You will have lots of questions. It might be difficult for the person to talk about their experience. Go at their pace. There are specialist services that might be able to help them.

Our Guides

Read more information about what the police process is when they find a missing person.

It is often not easy when someone comes back.  Read our guidance on how to make sure you are supported.

Read more about what you can say and do if you are concerned your person might leave again.

Find out what the police ask when they find a missing person, and what they do with the information.

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