You will likely be experiencing a range of powerful emotions. At this stage, you might want to think about practical areas of your person’s life that need to be taken care of. It’s important to look after yourself, whilst keeping the search for your missing person going.
People tell us that it is hard to think about anything else or to be able to get on with life while someone is missing, especially when the hours turn to days and then weeks. The most important thing to focus on is getting though each day and each task that you have to do. There are a few steps here which might be helpful to read about.
If they haven’t been reported missing to the police, consider doing this if you think they might be at risk or you are concerned about their welfare.
If the police are looking for them, make sure you know who your point of contact is, and what is happening in the search. Keep a note of these things.
If you’re next of kin, you might feel you want to take care of some of the practical areas of their life such as work, money, vehicles or property
Police may already been publicising your person using posters or online appeals. You might want to do some things yourself or ask us to help.
Find out what the police are doing when a person remains missing after a few weeks.
Read more about how you can look after your person’s affairs, such as housing, finances, and dependants.
Understand how you can keep your person’s appeal in the public eye so that they are not forgotten.
Read our guidance on making contact and doing interviews with journalists and reporters.
Read our tips on how to explain what has happened to your community and networks.
Read more about how to help and care for people with a loved one goes missing.
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